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Chettya Women Article (42)
06/03/2010




1. Select Color Pastels for Spring and Summer 2010


Bag is one of the most important accessories of women in supporting performances. Will understand the importance, Coach Leather ware, brand handbag American women recently demonstrated his latest collection. This new collection was introduced to enter the spring season / summer 2010. For this new collection, all the Coach lovers spoiled product with soft colors but still look elegant and beautiful.

Coach latest collection is divided into several parts one that relied on is a series of Kylie Collection. This collection is a marriage of old world elegance with modern design. Kylie Collection made from soft leather Juno. This leather bag is then given emboss exotic animal skins such as snake skin, crocodile skin and others.

Kylie Collection itself has some kind of bags the hobo bag has two kinds of strings, one for sash and one to bring in arms. Then there were the medium handbag collection, model satchels and tote bags are suitable to take to work or relax. Also a small collection of hand-bag clutches. For Kristin, you'll find some sort of padlock on the front as his signature detail. Impressed by his collection of classics will make it popular all time.

Another new collection is Madison, a more casual design. Many use the colors dim. Silhouettes are used carryall, Satchel, cross-body, also shoulder bags. For motifs, Madison used the monogram on many parts of the body, and a cheerful floral color will support your appearance for casual occasions. Another collection is Poppy Novelty, Charm, and Julia, a more impressive feminine with bright colors and shiny materials.


2. Leaving the Little Kids Accurately Alone?


There are times when you must leave your child alone at home. For example when you suddenly have to buy something in the mini market, or you have to do something in a neighbor's house. The trip to the supermarket or the neighborhood may be only 10 minutes. The problem, little can be aware you are not at home, panicked, and cried. Actually, there is no age limit on when your baby can be left alone at home. However, there are some things you need to consider before you do.

1. Security
Consider whether your neighborhood is safe. For example, a police guard, not prone to kidnapping, or criminal crimes. If you ate a quiet environment and minimal maintenance, do not leave the child alone unless there is preservation of the neighbors or adults.

2. Instinct
Although the age of the child is independent, but not necessarily emotionally they want to be left alone. National Office for the Protection of Children in America has a number of requirements to determine whether physical and psychological child is left alone at home. Well, this benchmark can help you as a material consideration.
- Little to know how first aid in case of wounds, burns, poison drunk, animal bite, or choking on food.
- They know how to save themselves when there is a fire.
- It can call on my cell phone or home phone to ask for help.
- They are willing or want to be left at home alone.
- Know distinguish things dangerous and safe.
But whatever happens, if you feel uncomfortable or feel uncomfortable, do not leave them alone at home. Most mothers have a strong instinct for her children. So do not ignore your intuition is.

3. Exercise
If you feel your child can be left alone at home, then start trying to leave him alone without adult care. Examples: Leave your baby for 15 minutes. Go to places that were located close to, for example to the house next door. Wait for a period of time, and see if the child tried to call you. Next add the length of time when leaving. But make sure that you always activate your phone so it is easy to contact you at any time.


3. Step 7 Change the makeup

Women's work used to things fast-paced and practical. Intensive activities and time constraints often make us do not have much time to dress up and fix her face, especially if they have to attend special events at night after office hours. 7 step makeup touch-ups can you practice the following.
1. Spray face for a refreshing facial mist. Dry the face using a soft tissue. When a shiny skin, use a blotting tissue to absorb excess oil. Conversely, if the skin looks dry, apply a little moisturizer.
2. Greed sow enough powder to eliminate the sheen on the face.
3. To produce a simple eye makeup but gives a different impression, use gold eye-shadow on the eyelid. Add green eye-shadow that contains mint shimmer on the eye bottom to give a sensual effect, Affirmed by using brown eyeliner to make it look more contrast with the skin. Apply a thin layer, as natural as possible.
4. Pins with eyelash eye-lash curler, then coated with mascara on the lashes top and bottom to look more sparkling eyes.
5. Apply blush of pink on cheekbones for a fresh face at once.
6. Lip gloss pink required in your makeup bag that can be used at any time. To obtain results more durable, use a lip liner then apply lip gloss.
7. As a final touch, dab a shimmery powder added to thin around the eyes.

EXPERT ADVICE
1. Touch up make-up is necessary to remove the signs of fatigue while working, and radiating freshness back in the face. First of all, reduce excess oil levels in the T-forehead, nose, and chin using a toner and then apply foundation and powder to remove the flash sow the skin in the area. Apply gloss after applying lipstick. Put loose shimmer powder on the bottom of the eye, upper lip and chin to give the impression of luxury.

2. To get the total look that different from the everyday, simply roll or tie the hair up, Pins by using hairpins or beautiful accessories. Spray hair spray so styling more neat and durable. For hair that tends to curl, use a thickening cream will add volume and clarify hair texture, As for straight hair styling mousse to use more hair volume.


4. Green for Asian Skin

Green is not only inspired the fashion designer to create a collection for spring / summer. Greens are also rising in the middle of the makeup world, not least for the Asian woman who skinned pink or yellow base.

Green is the color of a challenge. Daub of green color for eye makeup, not as easy daub other bright colors. Needed 'help' light concealer and foundation to the desired green color can be applied perfectly. After eyelid spiked green eye-shadow, eye line provided under the white eye liner to the overall impression is more gentle and natural. Instead, mascara was chosen to have a dark green color shadow. Face with a green eye makeup to look more 'shine' with the basic use of makeup (powder and foundation) that shimmer effect. Another key to success lies in choosing colors blusher and lipstick on the right, like lipstick and pink blush on.

5. Feng Shui VS Women Make-up


The word feng shui has become popular in recent years. Knowledge that comes from ancient China is no longer owned or among certain groups, because many people who have believed and felt was proved. The experts also apply this knowledge to the world of fashion, and even beauty. Feng shui in the makeup does not depart from the principles of yin and yang. Yin is the energy (chi) that glows gently from his face, while the energy that is hard to characterize.

1. Luck Face
Luck of the face (face fortune) can be described into 2 parts. The first is the 'mountain', ie the parts that hard, like the forehead, nose, and cheeks, which form / support of our character. Indonesia faces many people have strong bones character. This is very good because it means a 'mountain' is strong. The second is the 'river', such as the eyes and lips, the gentle and soft. 'Mountain' and 'river' must be mutually supportive and balanced.
Feng shui to bring makeup between East and West, so East by taking the natural sciences who come from mainland China, called feng shui, while the Western form of the technology, the combination of color cosmetics that are used, Thus the goal to connect the colors to highlight characters that can support a person good luck.

2. Limitation No Color
Theory of facial shapes and colors did not intend to limit the colors that can be imposed, because basically one color has many shades. In general, people prefer the fall colors, like brown and orange for natural makeup. Because of this during these colors will never be considered wrong. In fact, if you have the face of energy more powerful, the use of these colors should be avoided because it will further highlight and reliable energy will make you more fortunes away. These colors can still be used as an accent, for example at the edge or corner of the eye, not the most or the entire eyelid.

Use more than one color for makeup can be applied to help out a person's personality. No need to hesitate to wear bright colors. Fantastic game, but only slightly, quite important in personality and face out your fortune. Believe it or not, with more colors used, luck and the aura that you can contribute to change out.

3. Form VS Face Color
Before you start applying makeup, must first understand our own luck with the face of knowing how to shape: triangular, oval, round, square, or the like diamonds (diamonds). Each form has its own natural characteristics, which helped determine the compatibility with some color characters. The eyes are the center of attention and the most expressive body. So, should focus on the eye makeup. For lip color, can be adjusted or varied.

6. Hai Women, Maximize Your 'Assets'

The breasts are 'assets' women. So, not surprisingly, a lot of effort made to obtain ideal breast shape, Abroad, efforts to maximize the size of the breast has become the norm.

1. Breast and Hormones
Breast growth and development is influenced by the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Estrogen affects the growth and functional development of fat tissue, connective tissue, and mammary glands channel system. Whereas progesterone plays a role in widening the areola (the circle of young red-brown on the breast) milk is often seen blackened after delivery, Location of the breast around the ribs 2 and the 6, in line mid-clavicula. In the middle there is the nipple areola (mammary papilla or nipple) which is the estuary channel mammary glands.

2. Much faster and shine
Breasts are a symbol of the most prominent female and investigation to look sexy. Thus, there is no harm in your treatment to always maintain its beauty.
a. Miracle Glove
Gloves in the form of electromagnetic waves carrying the active role in stimulating cells of collagen and elastin around the breast to be active, Miracle Glove stimulate the muscles around the breasts to grow and raised over his head, Plus acupuncture techniques, breasts become more firm. Here is the process of treatment with this tool:
1. Breast is compressed by using a warm towel.
2. Breast cleaned with special cleaning, this as well as to beautify the color of the breast.
3. And around the areola breast rubbed with a special scrub contains egg whites and vitamin C.
4. Serum and breast were lightly massaged in the nerves lymph nodes.
5. Breast care process by using ready-made Miracle Glove. Way, therapists who use the Miracle Glove will do massage with interesting movement from the outside in, which will make the breast firm. After it is interesting movement from the bottom up, which will make your breasts expand, Movement is approximately 15-20 minutes.
6. Breast wrapped in a special cup breast of fiber, which flows through the electromagnetic wave which is safe for skin, for 10-15 minutes.
7. The breasts are covered with a mask containing aromatherapy oils for 15 minutes, followed by the provision of serum and gel to tighten the breast.

b. Dura Breast Treatment
To purpose of this treatment is breast lift dead skin cells and stimulate growth of new skin cells, In addition, the stimulation of a vibrator device, massage, micro-crystals, and the dura flash works to stimulate collagen toning in the breast that becomes more dense breasts and breast skin becomes more supple and taut. In lying position, the patients irradiated with light to clarify the area to be treated.
1. Breast dura cleaned with cleanser, cleansing milk very gently especially in the skin.
2. Vibrator is run on the breast to stimulate collagen. The movement of the vibrator is made out for about 5 minutes. This treatment makes the breast more resilient, fast and swollen.
3. The next treatment is to use micro-crystals, which serves to smooth the flow of blood and breast glands that enable nutrition to the surrounding tissue.
4. Treatment continued by using flash toning, which is a tool that uses light and heat waves in very low units. This tool is useful for stimulating collagen network which will happening regeneration of skin cells.
5. By using a brush, both breasts smeared serum vitamin C. Then, the therapist massages your breast with your fingertips. Serum vitamin C, aged for 10 minutes.
6. During 15 minutes of both breasts were given a multivitamin containing a mask. Finally, breast cream allergy micro-derma-bration a post peel.


7. Once Again About Aging Skin


Watch your facial skin is there any sign of fine wrinkles under the eyes? If there is, then you are experiencing skin aging process. The aging process began to happen in your 25-year-old, where there is a change and a decrease in sensitivity, texture, and flexibility of skin.

1. More oily Skin Younger
Dry skin tends to age faster because they have thinner skin than women with oily skin types. However, they still experience the same aging process. What are the features that experienced skin aging? Lines and wrinkles more obvious, uneven skin tone, dark spots appear, brown, or white, dull and rough skin, and decreased skin elasticity.

2. From Decreasing Body Metabolism
Age caused decrease the body's metabolism so that the production of important proteins that maintain the structure of the skin decreases. This resulted in the loss of the ability of cells to produce the necessary components to create healthy skin.
There are several factors that influence the aging process, namely:
- The fall in body metabolism which affects the lower number of proteins needed to maintain skin structure.
- The ability of cells to renew themselves diminished.
- Environmental factors or unhealthy lifestyles.

3. Healthy Habits
- Living healthy, manage stress, and not on a diet is too strict.
- Consumption of food supplements, hormones and vitamins.
- Never forget to apply sunscreen.
- Apply cream anti-aging in the morning and evening.
- Consumption of antioxidant products, such as vitamins A, C, E and green tea.

4. Function Antioxidants
Antioxidants serve to protect the skin by stopping the destruction reaction in skin cells, Can be drink and applied to the skin.
Here are some benefits of antioxidants with each:
- Vitamin A is very important during body growth, maintenance of skin, bones, reproductive organs, and boost immunity.
- Beta Carotene (pro-vitamin A), is fighting free radicals and boost immunity.
- Vitamin C, a powerful antioxidant and protects cells to avoid damage due to free radicals.
- Vitamin E, necessary to prevent aging and improve the body's hormones.
- Vitamin K, useful to establish several proteins that regulate blood clotting in the body.
Evening Primrose Oil (EPO), can be considered an important herb in reducing the effects of aging in general because the update hormones in the body, where the aging process can be slowed. Green tea is a pure antioxidant to help restore the skin's natural protection abilities, smoothing skin color, and reduce the incidence of spots and black spots.

8. Beautiful Blessing of Light Energy


When skin care is still very simple, solar energy is used for medical therapy and beauty treatments. This principle is applied by the Egyptians and Chinese, before finally developed further with the discovery of the color spectrum by Sir Isaac Newton. In 1903, Professor Niels Finsen received the Nobel Prize in medicine for his research in the field of light therapy.

In the field of beauty, light energy therapy is increasingly popular. Its main function is to improve the skin condition which has been damaged. Want to try?
1. Laser Light Therapy
Light therapy is a therapy that uses nanometer-sized light that has a very high sensitivity of the skin. This therapy can’t be equated with laser therapy. Light therapy can increase metabolism and at the same time stimulates skin cells to grow 5 times faster than usual. Because the work without damaging the skin tissue, this therapy has no side effects such as peeling or skin discoloration. Another advantage is its cooling (cool treatment). To apply, use light with a wavelength different, according to skin problems encountered.
- Whiten the face: a yellow light (460 nm).
- Improve metabolism, accelerate the production of collagen, and remove wrinkles on the face: the red light (660 nm).
- For the healing process of acne, eliminate bacteria, and prevent acne to grow back: light blue (588 nm).
***Treatment Steps***
1. Face is cleaned of dirt and dust that clung to use cleansing milk containing pearls, vitamins A, C, and green tea.
2. Done scrubbing using scrubs that contain almond and pearl powder, to lift the skin cells die and blackheads.
3. Face cleaned again with a skin gel that contains egg whites that are tightening, vitamins A, C, E, and pearl extracts that provide clear effect on the skin.
4. When face covered in lots of blackheads, conducted extraction process followed by the sterilization process. Face covered with cold steam to close the pores that have been opened.
5. Special massage on face for 5-10 minutes done to loosen the muscles tense.
6. Before irradiation, given the face of serum containing vitamin C and extracts of leaves. If you want white face, given serum licorice and witch hazel that bleaching effect. For facial acne, burdock serum applied thinly. And, for facial wrinkles, given serum butcher's broom, was given ray ready to face for 10-15 minutes with light of different, depending on the problem to be fixed.
7. Provision of masks according to skin condition, and then applied to normalize normalizing cream back acne skin conditions and oily. Softening cream is applied to sensitive skin or red faces, while the aging face cream given to aging and to protect the skin after this light therapy process.


9. Why Men love women, but with the Attitude that Threaten?

A. Negative Self-Concept
In essence a man who was threatening to take control in a relationship, generally the threat from scattered out of his mouth when problems arise between him and his girlfriend. Threatening attitude can be categorized as a reaction of frustration. There are people who easily become frustrated, as the goal he wants is not reached, even though his partner had clearly says that the relationship does not fit.

Easily threatened and frustrated, proving clearly that he has a negative self concept, and could lead to the two personalities. First, require high support and encouragement from others. Second, have a tendency to always be able to control everything. Therefore, be careful dealing with men with low self-concept. Men with negative self-concept generally have a desire to always be accepted and understood by her lover excessively. Thus, not infrequently become over-dependent manner, which has a high dependence on their partners.

B. Pleased to say the word break
As a result of this negative self-concept the possibility of potential forms of verbal violence bigger, He's wasting hobby sentence, "Be careful if you leave me." Actually, childish attitude is precisely to encourage couples 'escape'. Although want understanding and compassion are high, oddly enough, when given attention men with low self-concept is precisely 'ward'.

In fact easy to read signs like this guy, because it generally leads to violence either overt or subtle verbal or non-verbal, Usually while flying in an unwanted situation, it's easy to explode, not able to cope with a head cold. Tendency that appeared in maintaining a relationship, finally done in the direction that is not positive, He should show his affection for the couple through a sense of love, commitment, and trust, but he just hose lover with threats, sarcasm and harsh treatment.

C. Tolerance Limits
Tolerance limits, depends heavily on the acceptance of women, the extent to which his tough stance could be accepted, if you feel depressed or hurt, then that is already worth watching. Hurl criticism constantly just including violence, because it will automatically destroy confidence.

Try again in a sensitive study any violence. In this case is the attitude that if offensive. Note that if a lover is often threaten to hurt yourself or others, the anger spilled over breaking things, making us isolated, and embarrass us in front of crowds. Detection of separated again that the decision is the best thing. Do not back intermittently, for seduction, tears, accompanied by the words apology and promise to change. As an adult, of course you want the relationship remains good, although not bearing the status of lovers. However, if efforts to maintain a relationship regarded as 'the winds of heaven', once again affirm good faith.

Honest to your-self, do not manipulate the situation by pretending to give a chance, especially if you actually are not ready to end. Do not make him-self as just filling time. If you have a round, sitting face to face and speak from the heart, after that no doubt about it, because, usually with a man like this you would have given a lot of time and tolerance. Thus, the decision to drop out already conceived. According to the research, the threat was merely the expression uttered in the lip, really, so no need to fret when he finally did something reckless harm himself.


10. It Proper Man to be my Lover?


Early approaches were moments of mystery. Heart and your mind will be much preoccupied with the activities guessing, he's really really loves you and is qualified to be a lover? Or, he's just a man 'passing' that was worth fighting to be your partner? Here are the signals you need to take into account.
A. Avoid It if:
1. King who always Spreading enchantment: If you just before he dared glance can’t imagine how he coquettish behind.
2. Too cool: Ignored in this case is not about appearance, but his behavior is not sensitive to the surrounding.
3. Give too fast for more Information: A new first date you are stuffed with detailed information about his personal life. Usually this type of guy, if not a super mom son infantile Childish, yes, kind of narcissistic man, a devotee himself.
4. Any Hobbies costumes: If you crave neat and fragrant man, should think about it if it has to deal with someone who often appears eccentric.
5. Busy Own: As a date, instead of staring at your eyes with a tender look, uh, she was fun SMS. When later married, your presence might be considered sculpture.
6. Surreptitiously Good Chance: Only known it, he's making you uncomfortable by touching the body parts belonging sensitive. Bummer, right?
7. Not his body odor resistant: The smell of his favorite aftershave makes you sick? Well, if it has lost close to taste, how to proceed to a more serious level?
8. Too pushy: New two-three times to date, he was busy introducing you to the parents and all siblings. Really he crazy of weight? Or is he desperately looking for escort?
9. Rough: Only in a few dates only, in fact the man who ignited emotions are easily detectable. Well, if you catch signals like that, immediately end your relationship.
10. For Your Use 'fanning' Other Women: At a party, you are acquainted with the man handsome, friendly, and the single claim. Soon, this man has left you. Well, if he comes back toward you, do not bother anymore. You may make a tool he just 'inflame' the other woman.

B. If He Continues Forward
1. Able to attract attention at first sight.
2. Have much in common interests and outlook.
3. He was a true gentleman.
4. Not to vilify ex-lover.
5. Want to know your personal closer
6. His praise is not flattery rag.
7. He was not afraid of commitment
8. Humorous.
9. Looking clean
10. Glad to motivate


11. Faced with the child's Mother solutions that make Mad Teen



A. It's Different World
Educate children especially in their teens must have no standards. As a result there is no sure formula for this, often a husband and wife fighting to defend the truth of their opinions. Disagreement about the bringing up this child is growing along with the child's age, because any problem faced increasingly diverse.

Regarding demand preteen kids now, Rachael also see more complex and tend to be consumptive, although they can’t be blamed entirely "The kids ahead of today's teenagers different from our first teenager. As it was usually only the father who will make a living so the family finances tight enough, today, the family rarely becomes a father only breadwinner. Generally, any mother works. Thus, the family's financial ability is relatively good.

Beyond that, the business world also looked at the gap. They are racing to create the goods and special events for teenagers. Thus, the actual goods including the desire to change becomes a necessity. With the promotion and advertising heavily in the media, pre-adolescent children are inevitably affected.

B. Changing the way Communication
The issue becomes complicated, if there are differences of opinion about how to meet the demands of your child and husband. Thus, in addition to your child at odds with the request, you were 'at war' with the husband because the child wants. These differences are usually backed by many things could the difference in educational background, family upbringing or interests.

Family background differences are also influential. For a family of educators, might not be a problem buying a book every week, but enough to buy shoes once a year. Not so with the merchant families. Perhaps, for a family of traders, just buy the shoes should be the best, because buy good stuff, though expensive, is considered efficient, because it can be durable.

In the midst of differences, so too bad if you were 'at war' only to preserve their respective opinions, because of this disagreement are not only interfere with the husband-wife relationship, but also interfere with the child. Children will be confused where to take sides. Although they would desire fulfilled, they really do not want their parents fighting or silence each other because of them. It is recommended than you argue, better you and your husband tried to equate the view. For example, when it comes to the provision of goods, along with husband calculates your gains and losses before making decisions.

Faced with an increasingly socially widespread child, advisable that you and your husband try to put yourself and communicate like a friend of the child. Thus, if the child has a request or behavior that is not pleased at heart, do not immediately break. This actually makes your relationship with your child away. Like a river, if immediately closed, the water can spill into various directions. So, let it flow first, but you gradually channeled to the right place. Thus, just listen to your child's babble, and then slowly give understanding to him. But, of course, once you have your voice in common with the first husband.


12. The Solution when Women Fall in Love


No one can forbid you to enjoy the beauty of the days fall in love, but a problem, if you are already faithful to give promise alive as dead with her husband. Without invitation, the men 'stop' and stole a piece of your heart. How do you deal with it?

A. Starts From Disappointment
Love, like pure magic, is life's sweet mystery. Perhaps, true also says Helen Steiner Rice, an American poet. Love is a beautiful mystery since the arrival of love is never predictable. Quite a lot of wives who openly admitted to having fallen in love with another man especially during the last 3 years, why did it happen?, this is now the prevailing culture in society tend to lead to a culture of hedonism Everything associated with satisfaction. Satisfaction score was always sought and valued. In fact not only you who feel that dissatisfaction, the wives of the other marriage were experiencing and the discontent is a very natural thing happened.

As a result, if one day you feel disappointed or not satisfied with the husband, you were looking for someone who can make you satisfied. Thus, factors disillusionment with her husband, by accident, also encourages this situation. Disappointment was not always great, could also be a small disappointment, as the husband forgot to pick up or ignoring your birthday.

B. Living more passionately
Feelings of falling in love again this turned out to have negative impacts and positive to yourself, depending on how you react. With the show openly that you are happy to be given attention by other men, you will be a fight. Then, you will be brought up errors husband, and even accused her of love with you. This is the negative impact should be avoided. However, if the feeling of falling in love is channeled in a positive way, your attitude will also look positive. Your life will seem more colorful.

C. Hold the First Feelings
Having fall in love some time, you may be thinking, how it goes, forwarded or ignored, if welcomed the arrival of a new love, may be you will feel guilty because my husband was unfaithful. It might also open the door to infidelity. However, it seems, unfortunately if you turn your beautiful feeling, which rarely come into your life.

Before taking any action, recommended not need to hide those feelings. For some time, you should always bear these feelings. Do not rush to conclusions that you fall in love. What also needs to be observed is the feeling he was really against you. It could be, an offer to drive home is a form of attention of a friend.

As you already know that the feeling was just a mere admiration, you should immediately take a position. That is, let's face it calmly, no need to avoid it. If the other guy wants to take you home, accept his offer. Look at it as one test in maintaining the marriage ark. Now, the dilemma is that if you feel really fall in love again. If so, you should seriously consider this issue. Nothing wrong with a moment of quiet, so you can calmly think about it, is not affected other people comment. However, whatever the decision, you must be willing and able to be responsible and live the consequences, the important thing not to regret later on.

13. The Way Women Deal with Marriage Unpreparedness


A. Not ready or Not to Match?
Unpreparedness to face a marriage often makes men clam up when mentioned about the plan forward. This unpreparedness can come from various aspects. Can be due to material problems and can also be mental. Other causes that make a lover you never applied for a misfit who can’t express. Not necessarily mean that he was not in love with you, so in this case could be a real man is still hoping that his partner will gradually meet the criteria dream wife.

To distinguish the 'not ready' and which ones actually do not get along, it's easy. Usually, if not ready, serious man who will relate his unpreparedness frank about it. However if the man really don’t get along with you, this situation can be seen from the attitude and behavior toward you. Every time the question of marriage came out of your mouth, the body language he could not lie. There are shades of rejection there. In this case the woman is required to read the motion sensitive acting.

B. When Business Principles stumble
Another sign of the most easily observed is that if lover never introduce you to his family. Some men there are who are not accustomed to bringing their partners home, but was convinced to marry him. About religious differences may be somewhat difficult to bridge, though for both of you there's no significant problem. It takes thought, agreements, and patience high.

So, if you suspect that your lover's reluctance to do with the problem of differences in beliefs, once again we recommend that you sharpen sensitivity in observing behavior. If he looks relaxed chill out or tends to hide your presence as a lover, then he needs to question the seriousness. However, if he has the intention to slowly prepare themselves, perhaps he was worth hanging on. "As a child, he must know exactly the character and personality of his family.

C. Until when you have to wait
The topic of marriage is sensitive and can’t be done haphazardly. Therefore, before you start, try to understand first the couple's heart. Since you are most familiar with the person he was, of course you can read the situation, including time and space to find a fit. Above all, the most important is the openness. That way, both parties are not simply just another 'feel' about things that are desirable partner. What is important, each has a clear target and can put it clearly did.


Open hearts, open minds. In the face of problems, we often feel like a tangled. Actually, maybe the solution could be obtained easily and simply. In a panic, we just lost the more distant. Do not just focus on the problem, but try to find a way to shed some light. The important thing is you have to be honest with yourself. Put all your sensitivity to catch the signs that he showed, and prepare your hearts to the possibilities, good or bad. Try to think positively and act realistically. If too aggressive hunt-hunting can actually run your lover, instead give time to the lover still has its limits too, because only you know best your endurance limit. You alone are entitled to determine deadline it!


14. Facing the Husband Wife Solutions the Bossy


It’s not strange things when we see many couples whose relationship to the young was very relaxed. There is no 'strata' in between them. Unfortunately, the principle was not known by your husband. Well, how do I deal with it so that your husband did not claim to be 'time bomb' that can suddenly destroy your marriage?

A. No Real and Less Trust
Husbands who tend to sue her or seem generous to allow his wife or a fun hobby, but with some reservations, this is the real picture of the husband his wife was not willing to do all your desires freely, Besides not willing with your freedom both in career and hang out, a husband who spent a lot of demands that, perhaps, he did not have full confidence in her.

B. Between Perfectionist and Pain Not Believing
Why would a husband demanding hobby? This hobby requires closely related to the tendency of male chauvinism, which is the desire of a man seen 'more' than a woman. It was explained, male chauvinism in nature is in every man, but with varying degrees. The emergence of the nature of the prosecution in this man can also occur due to upbringing. For example, since childhood, he used a lot of responsibility, as responsible for his younger siblings.

Claimant's husband is not a perfectionist husband. Usually perfectionist he wants everything perfect, either for himself or others. The man prosecutors only impose those standards on others, including his wife. They are, considered more likely to be classified as selfish. Because it is always asking valued 'more' than his wife, made her more concerned with self interest, not someone else.

C. Not conceded Solutions
Faced with demanding husband, a wife often took the surrender aka relented. Only, if you are too often succumb or surrender, while the husband demands it goes ahead and usually tend to be increasingly dangerous-marriage. You do not want that to happen right? Therefore, it was suggested, early on you correct the husband demands. If it feels heavy, expressed from the beginning, do not nag at the back. However, before you even need introspection first, whether the husband's claim plausible enough and have the truth.

In essence, is recommended as a woman not too naive to respond the demands of her husband. Just because the husband said that his demands for the sake your symbol as a good wife and mother of noble, you are so uncomfortable when not filled. Where is the goodness and glory, if you're so tired and depressed?


15. When Women Feel Hurt by Love Relations


Romantic breakup is painful. Moreover, not long after ending a relationship with you, a former lover had walked with another woman.
A. Need to Open Eyes and Ears
- Women who become victims can fall into 3 categories. The first one, you really have to see irregularities in the lover's behavior, but did not consider that the problem is important.
- The second category, your blinded himself or deny the change of attitude as strange lover, You prefer to think positively and understand.
- Third, your lover is an 'actor' master. He's smart and keeping your heart and feelings play hide behind you. In the final seconds, and then he blew 'bomb' word break.
- Stated that the reason he suddenly decided his girlfriend was also varied. The biggest reason, still, because your lover is already having another lovely heart, or due to mismatch dark past.

B. After World Resurrection
- In terms of feelings, it was decided in a sudden or decided in a good, in fact almost the same. At the initial stage, usually occurs denial (denial). Only, in the case decided suddenly, his shock process can grow up to depression, even numb.
- The second phase is the release of negative emotions, Reaction from all kinds. You may be angry, sad, scared so lonely. Everyone has run different.
- The third phase is the stage of letting go and followed by a process of adjustment being single again. In the case of a sudden end, there are several influential factors involved, namely the length of the relationship, reason is abandoned, the extent to which relationships do, your age when he left, and how deep the love between you and your lover.

C. It should be time
- It was decided in sudden was something tragic and god forbid do not get written in the history of your lovemaking, because ultimately only make you 'battered'. Actually, there are tricks to avoid it.
- First, you need to know the person well loved. Second, do not be one hundred percent believe in a lover. Third, listen to complaints lover.
- But, if the rice has become porridge, and you overdo a victim, what to do? To be sure, you should not be 'Miss Terror' are angry or threatening to threaten his ex-lover or her new lover.
- Human so if you are disappointed, but try to deal with high-minded, though the practice is not easy. Adriana suggested, feeling disappointed or angry is better expressed by seeking emotional support to people nearby. Let time heal your wounds. Keep enjoying life. Unfortunately not if your time is wasted because only a man crying.


16. Solution Implement the relationship with a widower


Many people believe, dating a widower, is like capture the problem. In fact, outside his widower status, you could say he fulfilled his dream of criteria, has the nature of patient, caring, understanding, and established. Now, how to convince her-self that he was Mr. Right you've been looking for?

A. Widower VS single
With a divorce rate of married increasingly rising, apparently also spawned “widower cool” which is still comparatively young age. No wonder, the widower has become sought after as a life coach for women. In fact, dating a widower or a single man in general is no different. In fact, dating a widower has certain advantages. They are more aware of problems that would face in establishing romance, here the ability to cope. However, you also need to prepare for the history of life.

B. Know More about him
If you already interested in a divorced man, do not jump back, Unnecessary fears raised which is important, minimizing the recognized inside and out. So, need a process, not instant. Notice the way he opened up and adjust the relationship with you. Go with a slow connection, so you can accept his past and future travel with him.

C. Divorced dead or divorced alive
There are two kinds of widowers, the divorced and divorced to die alive. If your lover is a widower who left his wife dead, he practically did not fail in marriage. Only memories left by his wife can haunt you both. The best way is to take a lover to think realistically in the future. Do not dwell on the past. Take him to calculate future plans.

Divorced men living, the emotional bond between him with his ex-wife are not too deep, But bad, you tend to be suspicious, lest she make you the loneliness filler.
- The first step, you should look at the process of divorce. How to adjust your lover after divorce? What triggers her divorce? Make sure the status of his divorce.
- The problem becomes more severe, if the ex-wife often over shadow your relationship, although very disturbing, you do not immediately angry. Better to take a lover to discuss about how to deal with his ex-wife interference. Ask for advice, what should be done.
- Issues of financial division between lovers and ex-wife also needs to be listened to, If the ex-wife had married again, a lover you are obligated to give benefits, Even his children had to paid for a lifetime.
- Loving him a widower, then you also need to learn to love, or at least loved, his children. Do not expect to be a substitute mother in an instant. But, sure, you can love him. Hopefully, in time of your beloved child is willing to accept you, at least as a friend vent.
- Ask your lover to also appreciate the feeling you are dealing with the past. If you intend to seriously step lover with you, let him put your relationship together.
So, although the time can’t be the benchmark your readiness to continue both to the marriage relationship, at least, by 'reading' the adjustment process with him, you can see which way this relationship will continue, Is serious to the gate of marriage or simply to stay here.

17. Facing the Husband While Wife Involved The Crime Case

A. He needs to accept reality
Where women are not sad when I found out your partner involved in legal cases? Although a criminal defendant as a husband, you were as a wife would be affected, Feeling sad, disappointed and embarrassed to be one. It is a natural reaction. Without having to deny the existence of that feeling, you still have to accept it with patience and grace. Don’t dissolve in grief. As a parent who 'left', the children wait for your readiness to help. Not to mention the expected support of her husband.

B. Getting Face Changes
Various changes in the family must be going Economic problems, the presence of husbands at home and psychological changes in children. You must be ready and began to clean him-self against all that. To deal with the psychological changes in children, full of patience is required from you, Often children will show angry or rebellious behavior as a form of rejection of the conditions occur.

C. Divorced OR Last?
Regarding the relationship with the husband, quite humane if the feeling disappointed. However, it does not mean the end of your marriage. This is where the loyalty and patience as his wife tested. Be wise to give an opportunity to improve themselves is the ideal attitude, although not easy to do. For those who choose to split up, also not be blamed. "But, if you can wait for the case of the husband died down, do not be too burdensome husband with a good problem.

D. Try not Interest your self
Feelings of shame can make you choose to withdraw from social interaction. Isolate themselves from society is not the right solution, because it will make them more curious. Instead, remain active as usual. Do not let problems make your life and the children become destroyed.
Try not to feel burdened by the negative judgments that may arise in the community. And, prepare yourself and the children to answer any questions that arise about the events that happened. If environmental conditions are not proven helpful, even more stress you out, despite various efforts have been done and then moved home to be considered. With hope, in the new environment you can start it all better and more peaceful.


18. Facing the Husband who have Glancing Hobby to the Other Woman


In the dictionary man, another woman glanced habits that seem commonplace. But, often times it makes you, as a wife, feeling annoyed, even jealous. Actually, no need to put faces to show protest. Learn more elegant way for husbands to understand what you want.

A. Avoid Want Control
Talk about a mature attitude and dealing with a cold head is easy. However, sometimes it is hard to think clearly if the liver was already hot due to jealousy.
Often a woman puts herself in a dominant position. In fact, the higher the impulse to control, the more problems arise. Position yourself as a partner in the marriage relationship. A balance is parallel to the husband. What is important, knowing your husband does not like the habit of ignoring you, if you look at other women more attractive expressed clearly why you do not like the behaviors,

B. Be Relaxed
Another way to choose is a compromise. Rather than bother to argue, show that you can also invited to share about anything, including the matter of judging other women. Give your personal assessment of the woman who looked at. Who knew it could be a fascinating discussion.

So, every time your emotions will heat up, realize that you're faced with a choice: will react negatively or positively. If you choose to be calm and wise, her husband would be aware, behavior which he showed inappropriate in front of you. This does not mean you tolerate a bad habit, or accept it all your husband's bad habits. Only, it would be better if you do not spit emotions first.

However, a relationship with someone who is always upset and irritable because of trivial issues, just stressful. No one likes to cultivate a relationship with someone who is easily a fight. Moreover, resentment that often comes from the mind itself. So, if your husband's eyes were 'running around', do not be mad rush. Occasional so-so you are both enjoying the 'beauty' is seen. Did not feel calm, emotional closeness, and the quality of marriage far more important than fighting over everything that was acceptable? So, this is what you need to do!
a. Identify your feelings: What really makes you mad? Find a reason, so it can reveal the couple.
b. Do not immediately blame: Each person will get defensive if you feel accused. Avoid communication that focuses on 'sins' it.
c. Determine the purpose: Clearly express the attitude that you want. Do not just grumble.
d. Take the middle: Try to compromise so that couples do not feel curbed. Give him a reasonable limit and can be accepted by him.
e. Respond with a joke: Nothing wrong with responding to the habit of joking partners, that way, the husband felt embarrassed itself without your having to Cornered him.


19. When Women Experiencing Second Honeymoon


The honeymoon did not belong to a new bride alone. At the age of marriage is getting long, it needed honeymoon. Because, can revive the passion of love that began to fade, due to the daily routine.

A. Renewed Loves
Moment honeymoon or honeymoon is usually identical to the left both with a partner to a special place. Actually, according to consultant marriage, the honeymoon is not only done when a new wedding took place. Fine, really, you do a second honeymoon, third, and so on. After years of marriage, often husband and wife occupied with career problems, households, and children. As a result, they do not have enough time to notice and get closer to each other, this proximity to fueled more by second honeymoon.

B. Fix Problems The prop
A second honeymoon did not have to coincide with specific moments that are considered special for husband and wife. Also, there's no time frame or a certain gap between the first honeymoon with her and so on "The important thing is, when the husband and wife was saturated face the daily routine or feeling 'distant' from each other, that's the right time to do the honeymoon. If you wait too long, tensions rising and becoming increasingly difficult alleviated.

C. Honeymoon at Home?
One thing more which need to be considered for a honeymoon is an activity to be conducted, choose activities that you both can enjoy husband. If the financial condition does not allow, or you both husband can’t leave the city for too long, do not worry, the honeymoon can still be done, For example you both husband went to the cinema or to the resorts in the city that had not had time to go.

The house can also be a 'nest' the great honeymoon. Give a romantic touch to the house, or at least your bedroom. Finally, prepare yourself. Remember the body treatments you have ever done before the first day of the wedding? Who says pamper the body is only for the bride and groom? With bodies kept clean, you will appear more fresh and confident in front of my beloved husband.


20. Women Spending Solutions 'Iceberg'


A lover or a casual type of flat attitude it makes 'toothache'. Fine if you then feel disappointed at him, but you should not rush in despair. There are special tricks to conquer.

A. Blind Element of Surprise
The man is basically flat that is not a romantic man and it is difficult to express emotions. If so, how can we know that the man is doing this model in our approach to action? Did not they send out signals so vague, so that barely caught? "Indeed, the pattern approaches that they do tend to be low rhythmic. Word, slowly but sure but don’t worry, you'll be able to catch it, really. For example, if you call him, he'll serve you with a friendly phone. So, if you really like him, don’t there is nothing wrong to act more proactively. The reason is of such a man difficult initiative.

B. Please don’t just look negative
If you often have a boyfriend exasperation because the 'plates', you are not alone, really. However, what makes the situation difficult is that the women had a high need for affection, wants to be pampered and praised. For women this type, if not immediately be communicated is not impossible to do run aground in the middle of the road.
You see, over time the women will 'explode', because the relationship turmoil felt dry or cool calm. However, this had a lover like many plus value. Lover generally also 'plate' in matters of infidelity. He was not flirtatious and tends to have a motivation to a strong future.

C. Trick Identify and Conquer
A few tricks you must know to 'conquer'. An initial step is to communicate the contents of your heart. Speak from the heart and straight to the point. Second, show him, that in addition to the model expressions of affection that he had adopted from their parents, there are many variations of other expressions of love and describe the expression of love that you love. Another way is to remind him again about the things he's ever done to you in the past. Now, if a lover has to try to show behavioral changes do not forget to give him feedback in the form of a compliment.

Next, you should also try to realize and understand the beloved family background and upbringing he received from parents. If the steps have you applied, but the result is zero, this might be a good time to glance therapy. Don’t panic. Surely not because your boyfriend has a mental disorder, he just needed the therapy given to his little 'melt', so he wanted a little open to take and give. If you are still curious and wondering, "She's really in love or not, anyway? Why, it seems 'plates' right? "Nah, just follow the following suggestions:

Look at his behavior, if consistent in all weather? How do your current attitude to the office, the social environment, and in the presence of the family? If he's in front of you 'dumb' and acted reluctantly, but once in office immediately changed his attitude and hobbies joking with his female colleagues, you know it means? Perhaps, he was not a man 'of the iceberg', but he was not there in your heart.


21. The Problem Occurred when the Confessing or Mouth Shut?


You are serious with your lover, but continued to be haunted by restless due. Was associated serious, but never dared to submit personal secret for fear. Open or close personal secret, basically it right from the owner of the secret.

A. If has a Family Secret
Candor becomes very important because, especially in Indonesia, which still adhered to a large family system, a dark family secret can be a sensitive thing that can affect the couple relationship after marriage. No wise man concealing her family, when in fact there is a big problem.
Partner may be feeling cheated. After marriage, family secrets will be easily discovered. Just like a time bomb that could explode at any moment.

B. Disease if have Decreasing
Someone who has a disease decreases, must come clean to your partner about his condition. The goal so that the couple knew about the risks faced if he had finally decided to marry her partner and had children. Those who grew up in families where one parent or close relatives suffering from mental disorders, also need to come clean about this condition, Condition parents who have mental disorders are also a major impact on the child upbringing.

Someone who was diagnosed with, or become carriers of the disease decreases, such as diabetes, hemophilia, color blindness and Thalassemia, it must be truthful to their partners. From there, the couple could be invited and take the next step, for example, checked the condition of his health. The results of medical examinations could also be the basis for determining the continuation of this relationship. If it is stable with a current boyfriend, bitterness better talk first.

C. Past if you gray
When you've been in touch for a long time and lead to marriage, it should either party be open, at least up to about 70% -75, You can tell the couple that in the near future you want to talk anything serious about your past. From the answer, you can tell if he's the kind of man who is very concerned with virginity. If he's tolerant type, you can come clean. It is not impossible this fact was not disputed by the couple.

This can also be done if you ever been pregnant (before marriage), just say that you've lost virginity. Conversely, someone who has never married and had children in the past must come clean. Honesty is very much needed if the problem is loss of virginity due to sexual harassment, for example by their own family members, You see, it is not impossible this will interfere with the trauma of sexual harmony with my husband later. "For those who have problems like this, you are encouraged to consult a psychologist.


22. In Criticizing Spontaneity


You feel the activities carried out spontaneously can make your life more 'alive'. Meanwhile, your husband even felt his life was a mess when doing activities without a plan, How to succeed if don’t have a clear life plan, so always principle. Husband perfectionist and you are more easy going, and then, where should meet the point?

A. Based on the nature of Rear
Each person, according to psychological theories, has summarized the basic nature of the DISC (dominant, Influencing, steady, compliant). Only each person has a basic nature that is more dominant than the other properties, if your husband perfectionist, meaning its very nature is compliant. While you are more relaxed, have Influencing nature.

The characteristics of people are compliant, such as perfectionism, management plans, and always wanted to be accurate. Conversely, Influencing people are more easily adjust to the situation, optimistic, and happy to hang out. Only the negative side, he tends to fall apart, no attention to that detail, even the often forgotten.

Now, due to the nature of opposites that, no wonder if the husband perfectionist so often angry, because you are the type Influencing considered less discipline, less neat and has no plans to live. Instead, you think my husband is too demanding and difficult to accept what they are.

B. Avoid direct Criticizing
Someone needs to change the nature of the effort because of the nature of that form since she was little and continue to carry into adulthood. But it is considered likely to change husband's remains. Only, the changes are not great. And, the change could not immediately apparent. Necessary process before he decided to change.
If you intend to slightly change the husband to be more relaxed and flexible, you need to use subtle ways. The most powerful way is to try to be patient and yield. Alternatively, give your husband a choice. Talk to your husband about his stiff. Find the right time, perhaps when watching TV, when the husband is not under stress due to office work. Persuade her joking that she was a little 'loose' to the standard of perfection.

C. There are limits to flexible
Argument, perhaps, never happens because you tend to see things with ease. But, if you're not going to be tired of seeing her husband continued to rage? I think, there's nothing wrong if you are also trying to more tolerance, perhaps, easier to change ourselves rather than trying to change her husband.

This is considered to be even better if you have an agenda that contains your schedule daily. Do not until you make two appointments at the same time. When you promised to have dinner with her husband, you instead go to the cafe with friends. It is not easy to understand each other, especially if your character is very contradictory and husband. But, if you keep holding your disposition a relaxed and calm, although a problem, this will help you to more easily understand.


23. Sex Position for Satisfaction Women


It must be understood, it was the position of sex has many functions. There are specific positions for a quickie, a position to achieve satisfaction of both, even to have children soon. Well, what sex position you want to practice this evening with my beloved husband?

A. Work for fertilization
Long-married, you do not also have descendants? Can be your favorite position and less powerful husband a woman's womb forms an important role in determining the appropriate sex position for conception. It is advisable, be examined by a gynecologist to know which of your womb. The most potent sex positions for those who shape antroflection womb (uterus bending forward) is a missionary position Meanwhile, for those who shape retroflection womb (uterus bending backward), diligent practice advocated for penetration from behind or the more commonly known as doggy style.

The tool also has a pillow important role for the husband and wife who have reached 'peak'. For owners of the uterus antroflection, pillow propped on the buttocks in a period of approximately 20 minutes, is very effective for the process of fertilization. If for owner retroflection uterus, whether the pillow is still needed? With a note propped a pillow under your stomach and bend your head down women. There are guaranteed results.

B. Best for your Pleasure
There are two positions that can make you 'explode'. "There are 2 points sensitive to women who are able to produce an orgasm. The first, the clitoris which produce clitoral orgasm and, the second the G-spot that produces vaginal orgasm, do not underestimate the missionary position. Because, it turns out the position of 'eternal' it gives pleasure sensational. One movement as well as producing two orgasms, Terms of penetration with the penis upright, not sideways, and his wife raised his legs up.

Another recommended position is the position of a woman body on the body of man or the more popular the term woman on top, in this position she could arrange for the two sensitive points on the body can be stimulated at once.
Men are easily stimulated visually. In facing position with a sitting position or a wife by her husband's lap, especially when followed by a kiss, Stunning scenery certainly made the atmosphere even more heat and impressive.

C. Steady to Quickie
Fun and exciting! Because generally conducted in a public place with the atmosphere in a hurry, adrenaline increased making quickie sex became a difficult experience unforgettable. Orgasm even shorter, but it's like, wow ... really great! The position depends on the capacity of the room. It was recommend doggy style position in the large room, like in the work room or kitchen. Wife can deepen stimulation by elevating the buttocks (Swoop position).

If you do a quickie in a narrow place, like a small room, most recommended standing position. In the basic standing position, the wife can sit back on the wall. Or, if the husband and wife are strong shorter, the husband can raise his partner with his wife locked his hands behind your buttocks and put his foot into the body of her husband.

D. Want Fun Couple
Missionary position, where the legs spread wide left his wife went upstairs, or the knee interesting, to touch her breasts, would make the husband reaches climax. Position inside out can be a fun option. In this position, she held both her legs, while her husband puts his feet on the next leg wife. Husband entered and took his penis as she worked on the clitoris during penetration, to enhance the enjoyment of both.

E. Want to have Sex with Soft?
Position side by side, where the couple was lying opposite each other, with both feet touching each other (round) is the proper position is selected, if you want to make love in a sensual and soft. Also suggest trying spoon position, ie the couple lying side by side, facing the same direction, and to penetrate through the back, if you choose a position facing each other in the eye contacts that makes this position very okay to tease.

F. Want to Achieve Fast Peak?
The coolest position is when your husband sitting in his lap, with your legs or buttocks pinched waist, while her husband sat with bent leg position. Generally, this position is done by couples to reconnect to romance disturbed by the bustle and everyday problems. Clamp position is also generally done by women who wanted to reach orgasm.

G. Most Favorite Position
Missionary position is the most favorite position. Like vanilla ice cream, this position can be transformed into something yummy with a touch of cherries, whipped cream or chocolate sauce. Of course, this could mean in terms of metaphor or the real words! Use of a dildo or vibrator will also make you love the game and the husband is more impressive. However, it is not advisable to choose this position, because it will lead to boredom. If done once in a while, covered would be very nice.

24. Women Facing Anxious Lover all of a Sudden Away


The first month of dating, wow, the world seemed to belong together. The second step on the moon, romance of the rain he slowly fading. Any errors, hell, what have you done?

1. Very casual in appearance
You do not need to be the maniac salon to look beautiful and fragrant. Even so, do not underestimate the cleanliness matters. For the solution: Women predetermined as a beautiful creature. Keep appearance. At least, notice the cleanliness, hygiene, especially the skin, mouth, and hair.

2. Play be Mother
Honey Why Your Apartment is a mess? Sentence like that might be a routine out of your mouth. The purpose of this greeting is good, as a sign of attention or just to remind. Unfortunately, your good intentions could be taken wrong. So, for the Solution is if he feels too often 'driven', obviously he will rebel. Limit yourself to just cast a suggestion and not joining in making decisions.

3. Obsessed Appearance
Normal course when a woman complained about the lack of body. But, man was annoyed at the woman who always wants to look pretty. For the Solution is Instead of making him bored with the questions about your body appearance, better talk about something else that could reflect positive qualities themselves.

4. Like acting little girls daddy
Such women usually being spoiled, with spoiled tone, to always be respected and fulfilled his wish. For the Solution is the man is like a spoiled partner against him. But, on the condition that indulgence does not interfere with daily life patterns.

5. Keep image
This woman follower principle, can Hearts swearing, but a wide smile must be installed on, For the Solution is It okay to keep the image, but not excessive. Try to accept and overcome the weak point of you. Nobody is perfect.

6. Selfish
This woman lived in his own world He did not know the word compromise or tolerance. So the Solution is tried to put your-self from other people's perspectives. Ask yourself the question, for example, "If I were him, would I be treated like this?"

7. Too Many Talk
The mood is happy or excited gossip often causes you to lose control. So the solution is tried to enjoy the role of a good listener. Try also to not be tempted chimed in because usually plagues originated from there.

8. Suspicious
Imagine if your mother attacked with a variety of questions, well, you'll feel annoyed! The Solution is Use a strategy if you want to know everyday start with how he was doing, if its delivery sweet, he would yield as well, really.

9. Depends on him
Initially, the men love to meet the demand of her lover. But do not let you treat it as a personal servant. The Solution: The attitude of dependence, because you're so not agile and difficult to develop and try to solve their own problem before asking for help.

10. Ability Self Hiding
Why do women like to drown her potential? If shows the true self, he was afraid he would be away, because it was considered as a competitor. The Solution is one, if the present you still think that men do not like smart women. Men just admire women with a myriad of skills.

25. 10 Kinds The 'Sin' Husband in Wife


Huh, upset! Husband difficult to cooperate in the care of the household, His attitude was always spoiled and selfish. Ease, what I should do, huh?

1. Selfish and Stubborn: Attack with harsh words full of emotion as arguments and ask your mind with a cool head, without emotion. Point out the facts that support or attack atonal cornering.

2. Casually dressed: Always criticize her appearance. Bring a rather formal shirt with styles and colors to suit his taste. Also bought dark-colored jeans cut neatly, give as a birthday present along with the most tenderly kiss.


3. Calculation of Money Problems too: Shopping in secret and hide credit card bills. Give meaning to the husband that the activity of shopping is not just for fun, but you also need to be able to put the brakes on the desire to shop, especially when it is 'dangerous' household finances.

4. Not again intimate: Accusing he was 'tired' because no longer be intimate with you. Draw your his affection with initiative first. Like a kiss on the cheek or arm around her waist at the time was traveling alone. Turn on more intimacy between you both.


5. Often hang-out with his friends: Calling repeatedly husband when he was with his friends. Talk about your desire to spend more time alone with her husband. Origin sweetly phrased, should he willing to change for the sake of domestic bliss.

6. Too Reliance on Wife: Don’t harbored resentment. Do it Once upon a time, so your help. However, at a time when the right time talking about that you also have some personal interest that must receive attention.


7. Indifferent when invited to speak: Turn off the television and blurted out a mess if the husband actually 'busy' watching television when you talk to him. Come sit back and watch with him. Pointed out to him the things you want to tell. If he still does not turn away from television, not a broken heart before. Because, although appeared indifferent, he could be your actual listening attentively.

8. Not sensitive: Do not just shut up or respond with words more spicy if the husband is often throwing hurtful words. Tell the husband that his actions have hurt you. Ask him to stop the habit and to be more sensitive.


9. The 'King' in Bed: Do not Pretending to sleep or put on a frown when her husband was sensitive when you're tired and do not want to make love to him. Tell the husband about what you feel. If you and your husband are both busy outside the home, it's hard to find a 'frequency' is the same for cuddling. As a result, occasionally there should be a party would budge. Talk about a good that the problem is clear, and there will be no party who feel harmed.

10. Be Like a Guest: Do not Nagging as do all the housework if the husband acted as if he was a guest. It would rather talk about your objections to him. As a partner, of course, does not matter if you share household duties with him.


26. Facing the Husband Who Has Hobby Exhibition


Occasionally hear your husband 'talk big', may not matter to you. However, it will be a problem if the 'big talk' husband was used as a daily habit.

A. Husband began diligently to boast
If as your wife has begun his wits against a husband. Every family event or gathering with friends, he became depressed, because your husband always talking about thing that do not make sense. Many factors make a person become a braggart. The things of the material are often used as a manifestation of a performance of a particular achievement. In this case, your husband wants to get praise for its ability to realize success in the form of luxury goods.

Responding to the case of your husband, you feel that the husband basically wanted to show success. Husband has a need to get approval for something he has accomplished. So, he felt the need to make known to others, while you as his own wife can’t give the desired confession, knowing exactly the truth conditions.

If viewed from the gender element, you also recognize that men do tend to count success in terms of material, because as head of household, it is concerned with the ability to support his family. But again depending on the shape the social environment and one's conditions, is he required to appreciate the success with a certain brand car, after all these years of work? The answer is depending on one's beliefs in assessing the 'degree of success of a man'.

B. What Extent be tolerated?
Tolerance limits braggart wife against husband, depending on the dynamics between husband and wife themselves. The reason, not all wives object to such attitudes. If annoyed, the irritation degrees vary.

It could be, because the wife is less sensitive to the work effort husband, then her husband tried to find support and praise from other parties outside the home. Though not necessarily every day, try asking her husband a job development, Discussion of these lights always showed concern for her husband effort, if necessary, give a small gift as husband reached a target. Thus by itself husband realizes that existence is meaningful to his family.


However trying to launch a thousand compliments to eliminate someone who bragged behavior less effective, the problem, if not discussed first, the praise does not work accurately so it can not be a permanent solution. Instead, the husband and wife first understand the satisfaction levels of each.

With the openness, the future of both husband and wife can each dig. The hope, of course, so my husband could understand his behavior was wrong. The most important is the existence of open communication, trying to communicate attitude disturbing anything, thus obtained assertive honesty, rather than just attacking, because if delivery is wrong, no ego will be attacked.

27. When Affected Husband Issues


As the closest, the wife is the figure most responsible for helping the husband got out of the weight problem at hand. As a wife, certainly as far as possible you want to give support. However, do not give any assistance. Because, one-one, the intention to help destroy your life together.

A. Don’t be a Victim 'aftershocks'
When the wheels of life are on the top, maybe you feel like the happiest person in the world. However, it is not possible, a time when you felt as the most miserable person in the world, because your husband falls into such a complicated issue. When faced with complicated problems, the first thing to do is to accept the problem by clearing the liver and not blame each other. To remember, do not position themselves as victims.

If you want to give an explanation to the children about what happened, then give the information in accordance with the age of the child. Do not give too much information, because it actually confuses the child and destroy their pride of their parents. The important thing, do not let kids think that this problem occurs because of their mistakes.

B. Listen to your heart
The unique personality of every human being caused not all women dealing with issues similar way. There was a woman who basically extroverted personality, and thus more able to perform proactive actions rather than introverted woman. What is clear, do not push your-self if not actively support. Personality types that one is not better than others, because each person must have advantages and disadvantages of each in every way.

There are many ways that can be done to give the wife the husband's support. Then, for how long the support should continue to be given? Ideally, a wife must remain in the husband's side in any bad conditions. However, the level of one's strength when facing different pressures is determined by many factors, such as the complexity of the problems, the quality of communication with partners, as well as moral support from the environment.

However, flat-out love, there must be the wife who finally could not stand and decided to split up, Responding to this incident, not as the accused wife who is not loyal or 'sweet junk thrown out'. Every human being must have expectations in life. If you find that hope was not fulfilled, it is everyone's right to seek a better life, follow her heart.

28. Are you and your husband Perfect Couple?


Perfect match is not only measured by how many romantic activities conducted by a husband and wife, but the extent to which the needs and expectations of each can be fulfilled.

Which type you both?
Foundation in general, choosing a partner is different, therefore, eventually formed pairs with style and type of each. Well, what type of partner you and your husband?

1. Joining type Inseparable
Type couples have hobbies and interests.
- Benefits: You both have an emotional closeness that is very close. For you, 'partner is a friend'. The couple both enjoy together.
- Weaknesses: Proximity is also easy to experience 'friction'. The reason is, everyone needs privacy, when you and your husband were always run the activity.
- In order to remain intertwined romance: Occasionally you need to have their own space. However, you still need friends from different circles. Keep in a relationship with someone else.

2. Parallel - Type of Cooperation
The Couple for this type have different interest but still able to perform each activity at the close.
- Advantages: This pair is a good team. Despite doing things differently, your goals can be achieved both well.
- Weaknesses: Unfortunately, because it was felt that each knows what to do, this type of partner is usually a lack of communication.
- The more so close: Encourage discussion about favorite husband you both. In addition to communicating, it also makes her husband feel needed.

3. Segregated - Contrary Type
Type this pair has a different personality 180 degrees.
- Benefits: emotional needs of each can be fulfilled, although not done together, Space that you both have also quite extensive.
- Weaknesses: To understand the needs of the couple is difficult enough. Therefore, the emotional closeness you both potentially become tenuous.
- In order for intimacy is established: Understand the needs and expectations of the husband. Know what you need and expect different from your partner. Therefore, you should be more sensitive and find out what the needs and expectations of the couple. Try both of you being open to each other.


29. When the wife and Issues Facing the Conflict controlled by-Laws


Prior to live with in-laws, maybe you admire your own mother-in-law. But, once-in-law lived together at Ina's house, almost every day they are like cats and dogs. Is it always like this happened if there are two ladies in one house?

A. Prone to conflict because of different generations
The case was not really a conflict can only occur between us and the in-laws. With a sister too, if live in the house, there were problems that arise. While not all scary mother-in-law, would still be a risk of clashes in the house, when in-laws live under the same roof with us. In addition, the presence in the home-in-law would limit the privacy between husband and wife.

B. Talk with Big Family
Probably a lot more trouble sticking to the surface if the laws under the same roof with us, if you continue to focus on problems, solutions elusive. The first step, suppose that the mother-in-law as his own parents. Faced with in-laws who are elderly and have a weak physical condition, need special attention, because, as you age, their physical condition also declined and sometimes more often suffer from certain diseases.
Nothing wrong with you and your husband keep offering alternative alternately in-laws brothers house the other husbands. In addition to offset the cost of care, in-laws can also be prevented from feeling bored. He could visit his children's residence the other. "Talk about a good alternative and do not push yourself when the solution was not pleased with the heart-in-law. You and your husband should be protecting his in-laws so as not to feel 'rejected' by the child and the law.

C. Sharing the Responsibility Laws
Another positive thing that can be perceived as being in-law is that you no longer feel less anxious when leaving the child with a baby sitter or maid. Do not be jealous if your child has a very close relationship with the grandmother or grandfather. You also can accommodate the desire to participate in-law in household, by giving responsibility appropriate interest.

However, previously, communicate to her husband. Tell your reasons, to avoid misunderstandings. Believe that no matter who does not have a way out. Make the experience with in-laws live with the memories in your life, and the road to devote to their parents. Who knows, because they live together, you and your partner-in-law became compact and can even join husband position as the 'golden girl' in the eyes-in-law, Exciting, is not it?


30. When Love Coloring Friendship


Friend and lover are both important in your life. Automatic lover became the outpouring of love and attention, so also with friends. No wonder if sometimes the closeness of friendship, the vibration-vibration of love was beginning to emerge.

1. FRIENDS VS Wife
Friend and lover, have equal status with special. The difference is that the lover passion or desire arises. Why love for a friend could be feeling the love? Togetherness often makes a change from just a friend to be 'special friends'. If you experience it, do not be too worried. Who knows, the friend also has the same feelings with you.

Well, if you get a friend who then became lovers, this can be considered as a good luck. Love that begins with friendship is also usually more durable. Why? Because, long before the date attached to the commitment, you and your lover have each received their behavior is.

2. Good and bad
The friendship become lovers don’t always run sweet. Remains negative and positive sides. On the negative side, sometimes a habit carried over to be friends when it's brought officially as a lover. If a friend can be a bit cool and casually, on dates still to no treatment or award as a lover. So also in the spoken word, words that tend to be expressed around, it's good little hold.

3. Staying on cares about
Another thing, which should really pay attention in this connection is the presence of other friends, Especially if you've been both lovers are united in a group of friends. Do not let the story or the experience of married couples it the other happen to you.

There are many ways for you and your relationship running smoothly as he had a friendship with a group of friends. If you just hold hands while crossing the street, other friends can understand it. It is better if the attitude is more intimate than it was on display at the front of my friends. Thus, the story of lasting love walking, friendship smoothly.


31. The Child's Peering When You Making Love

It's late you and your husband were in bed, Comfortable atmosphere of a romantic lead. Both were you do not miss the chance for romance. When is 'full swing' a sudden, your kids are toddlers and sleep in the crib in your room up. He looked confused at you two are 'in action'.

A. Can the Wrong Perception
In Western countries the problem of children accidentally saw the intimate activities of his father and mother is rare, because western culture embraced individualistic system. Generally, they have separate little room with the first day the child returned from maternity hospitals.

In contrast, in Eastern societies, including the Asian families, togetherness is very important. In fact, there are children who are still sleeping one room, even a single bed, with her parents until the late teens. This could interfere with privacy of the father-mother, how to have sex a quality, if you're worried about your child awake.

It should alert you if this activity caught the little guy. If viewed from the perspective of psychoanalytic theories of Sigmund Freud, saw the parents of sexual activity can be interpreted by a child's horrible. Also worry about sexual activity and mother's father was imitated child. "The development of soul, character, and habits of children usually grow up following the principles of modeling, which mimic the behavior of their parents.

B. Don’t be Panic
What if have to be careful, you are 'caught' as well? Do not panic, try to be reasonable. Don’t panic, let alone angry and shouted at the children. But if their toddlers or in elementary school, you should immediately stop your activities, dress appropriately to calm him down. If your child is not yet a year old, this activity has not impacted anything for him-self. Even so, you should accompany it back to sleep before continuing your activities.

It is recommended you should talk to him about what he had seen. Try as much as possible to explain in language understandable children. Emphasize that you do with your husband is an expression of your love as a mother and father. Tell me also, that activity is a normal activity conducted by people who are already married.

Although Freud's theory states that these activities can cause trauma for children, which is can be to cause allergic or later he hated his father, but it was not necessarily inevitable. Intercourse is taboo if your child looks, is not the case with such affection hug or kiss lightly. Show such affection could be a sign of old people love each other and in harmony, giving rise to a sense of security for children. In addition, a light hug and a kiss can be a learning event for children to express affection, so they do not grow into dry generation affection.


32. Faced with a hostile attitude to the husband's family


Ideally, a husband's relationship with his wife's family, if this relationship until the crack, wives are often in a wedged position. Rasa go wrong, this is a natural reaction of a wife whose husband quarrel with his extended family. Such conflicts must be dealt with wisely, so as not to grow more difficult, such as family discord or divorce.

A. Who should favor?
A close attachment relationships in families, often make people feel confused to choose which side to defend. This condition is common in those born in a family with familial ties are very close. Conflicts between husband and wife family intervention can be initiated from a large family. Because of various factors, not all wives can say 'no' to family size. Like the saying "blood is thicker than water there are some wives who feel more secure to defend a large family, than her husband.

B. How do I have to be?
The dispute between the husband and wife's family could have been prevented since the beginning. If you already know that the nature of one family member not honest, do not ask the husband to hire or do business with him.

Attitude that is not less important is the adult in response to the dispute. Find the root of the problem. If possible, invite the husband to work together to find solutions that can improve the relationship. "Compactness and mature attitude plays an important role for a wife in dealing with disputes between husband and extended family. He should be active and patient in seeking solutions. It takes patience, because it sometimes takes a long time to get a win-win solution!

33. Waiting for word phrases Love


While still as lovers, the word love, praise, roses, plus a special gift full of surprises as a birthday, never missed you receive. However, after marriage all of a sudden disappeared.

Expression of love men is different
Perhaps, you wonder why her husband never again saying the word of love and do not care about the little things that you think is important. Men and women are living in different worlds. Their perspective on the importance of a different thing, Most, men prioritize the things that relate to the academic or employment, while women prefer the beauty and neatness.

So did about the habits of the family brought. Every family has different priorities. There are considered, special days, such as birthdays, are considered important, but not a few others think that the anniversary was different from ordinary days. For this reason, the attitude of a husband to wife is also influenced by family habits.

However, that does not mean the husband is not concern for his wife, only how to express love and attention it differently. For example, not to spit words of love every time, but with an attitude, which is responsible for meeting the needs of his wife. The husband did not care about your haircut is the new, let alone give a compliment, for example, but they still care for his wife.

Maybe they were angry when asked to think about the little things they think are not important at all, Moreover, if they are tired of working for money, which is for the benefit of the wife as well.

Why are men so concerned before marriage? That's because their current priority is to find a partner. Therefore, they will try their best to get his coveted woman. Do not be discouraged when your husband is no longer noticed small changes or important moments in your life. Not that they do not care, but they forgot or did not realize.

Or because his work is solid not focused on you, but work on the problem at hand, so if the husband is rarely say the word love or words of praise, why do not you just speak it to my husband? Perhaps, it would make him get used to and gives the same thing to you.


34. Women aged 30, still has not had a Boyfriend?


Women aged 30, has not had a girlfriend still? Get ready 'closed ear', because it must have heard many comments hurtful. Busted street with several men, assessed after deposit, close to him too quickly considered slam prices. Close to a number of men, but no one so well? Reputation attached picky woman. Proverbial, forward hit, hit back, In fact for a pledge of commitment to only once in a lifetime, certainly not arbitrary. Picky and have standards must be done, However if the standard height, also dangerous. The ends of you do not visit to see 'dream prince'.

A. Loyal to the Status Single
Actually not all women who still own (age above 30) has a very high standard and be unrealistic. Many actual realistic standards, but finally got the label picky for several reasons. First her social monotone, so the opportunity to meet new Candidate did not come, Incidentally stock men in the neighborhood was already gone, Whether it was already married, or been close but did not click. If this condition, these women should be encouraged to expand social horizons.

Women who looked cool and did not slam the price, though it was in the 'age of panic' are those who think marriage is not a goal, but a phase in life. In the eyes of powerful women, the status of married or not, life will still be qualified. They consider that clicks mate with them, had not arrived. So, why should hard? Plus has a broad social, so do not be lonely, If these conditions do not they have, but the nature of women is still relaxed? That is, he does have a strong personality, so he did not hesitate against the current.

Natural age making her considerations in selecting more diverse partners, the trigger is a factor of maturity and stability. Maturity factor makes someone more critical and evaluative, so that more careful when dealing with others, including his own standards. Stability factor, since most women at age 30 are those who are highly educated, have a steady career and good income.

Picky what harm? The answer is picky unrealistic. For example, just want to have a partner, if he's handsome, polite behavior, loyal, have a brilliant career, and accumulate wealth. The figure is clearly not as perfect as exists in the world. In fact, a near-perfect figure just like making a fuss with all points plus, too crowded competition automatically, Too tight and obsessed with the high standards it kills the chance to meet with the man, who could be your soul mate really is.


35. Women Playing with Love Dice


Two red dice bearing the numbers one to six are funny as a game all ages. But this is not an ordinary dice is clearly not to play monopoly or snakes ladder. One of the dice each side saying 'kiss', 'massage', 'Lick' and so on, while the other dice, among others, saying 'ear', 'chest', 'lips'. This is one example of adult toys, for 'fun' in bed with the couple, any other fun toys worth a try? What are the benefits to your sex life?

A. To trigger sexual activity more spirit
The heavy burden of life and routine activities often make love no more exciting and eagerly awaited, therefore necessary to restore lost interest triggers that used to make your passion burning in bed. One of media that can be triggered is a tool or a game that can break the ice stiff and monotonous. The reason has become the human tendency to be attracted to something unusual. In addition to couples saturated, these tools can also help a newlywed couple who are less experienced. By playing 'dice of love', for example, either the husband or wife will get a surprise or a new idea, which previously may never stop in their heads. Furthermore, it can be explored in their sexual lives.

For the wives who include an introvert or always wrong behavior if you want to ask for 'quota' to the husband, a toy like this model is equally useful. Rather than have to speak to the point that makes the red face, just give vouchers to the husband's naughty, for example that said, 'You are entitled to an erotic massage session. Tempted with this stance, which the husband does not yield? By means of a diary 'open-opener' that is packaged in humor in the book All About Us by Philipp Keel, you can also find out the things or even avoided favorite couple, but never discussed the previous two. Recognition of the last he really enjoy making love, pleased he'd quickie, some sex toys are actually made upset and discouraged, until the things you do and make it turn off, will be completely removed in the 'diary' of this.



The toys of this section can also be a reference to open your sexual fantasies and couples. For those who dry the idea, or a naughty little imagination, these tools can help gushing sexual fantasies. For example, in the book His and hers, Simple and Sexy Things to Do, written by Nicole Murn pair Justin Cord Hayes and Hayes, married couples can be provoked by replacing creative breakfast in bed with ice cream in bed. Try serving vanilla ice cream that flushing warm chocolate sauce and whipped cream for couples, plus humorous greeting cards, 'Eat Me, Please'. Who knew a special surprise that made my husband eat the ice cream inspired by her favorite in your body! Or, should also try to give vouchers a bad boy, for example, that said, "You have the right to kiss from head to toe," and add comments below idle, "Do not worry, I will spend twice as much in the hottest spots.

36. Husband Facing Difficulties in the Not Wise


Differences sexual desire and rhythm can indeed be a wedge that husband-wife relationship. Instead of dizziness alone, better find a solution.

A. Up-Down Sexual Desire
Women of today certainly do not want to just be sexual objects. Although sexual desire is influenced various factors (environmental, educational, and hormonal), generally healthy men and women have the same passion, "People with normal and healthy, not going to ignore sex, especially men. In fact, sexual desire may decline, the reason, among others, saturated, either with partners or having sex style.

Sense of saturation could be due to an invitation to make love to the point. Or, when making love, the couple was busy complaining about the condition. Saturation can also be due to unfulfilled fantasies. Second, today's couples are both work and make time to meet a brief, the third from exhaustion.

B. Understand that there is a Differenced
Why do couples want to have sex only once a week, while you want more often? Maybe you should make a reflection. Does your job is relatively not too heavy and time consuming. Meanwhile, the couple often worked late into the night. In addition, there are couples who have a different understanding of sex, maybe your spouse taboo to talk about sex, but not for you. Could be, someone you claim to routinely have sex 3-4 times a week, even 5 times. As a result, you get a 'quota' once a week, feel insecure. Though there is no ideal measure of how often sex.
Finally, how much sexual desire are you? Is sex is everything, until you directly boring if you desire not fulfilled? If this happens, you should consult a psychiatrist.

C. Important Quality
Sexual relationship involves at least four aspects, Procreation (producing offspring), recreation (fun), communications, institutions (the institution of marriage). In couples who want children, sex is intended to allow pregnant women. In couples who have children, the priority shifted to recreation. Unfortunately, many couples forget to reach the pleasure to communicate. Quick sex and masturbation can be a solution. However, when things got better, make normal back your sexual relationship and partner.

However, if the passion and a rebound not bore you, is there a medical way to tame it? Unfortunately there is currently no cure for 'calm' sexual arousal. Preoccupied than drugs, better fit your body. So, although there was a cliche start communicating with the couple in bed. No need to mirror the other couples, because each pair is unique. "Because of that, look for more solutions based on quality and not quantity.


37. Female Principle: “Yours Money and My Money”


Brilliant career and financial freedom had probably everything for you. However, after the foster home and alive with the presence of the small, it is often shifted priorities. Bustle, congestion, and distance between home and work, take your precious time and the baby. Moreover, if your child has special needs. In the end, for optimum growth, you decide to stop working and devote all the time for the family. With the risk, cost of living depends entirely on the couple.

In fact, adapted from independent woman to be a faithful wife waiting for husband's salary, took the struggle, especially if the husband belong to 'possessive' in matters of money. Do not panic, with little strategy, you can ask her husband to share.

A. Sensitive VS protective
Mentally to be prepared to deal with foreign domestic world. If you previously thought about how to deal with the boss and meet the targets, it must be the boss at home. Starting from the face caused by the household maid who liked to fight, plus deal with a fussy baby. Keep in mind, this new assignment did not know the hours of work. We faced a different reality, in many ways is to give meaning to their daily lives. There are mothers who merged with the baby. There is also a time filled with 'crazy' shopping to cheer them-selves from the household routine.

Therefore, before deciding to withdraw from the world of work, it is recommended that you discuss with friends, that is, the real housewives. That way, you are well aware that problems may arise. After that, make an agreement with the couple, referring to the new problems are, The contents of the agreement was merely a division of tasks, but also includes the family's financial arrangements. There is no patent formula that can be selected. Each pair has a way of managing his owned money.

So that is not entirely dependent on her husband, before stopping work, it helps to set aside income and opened his own account for emergency funds. Minimum to cover personal needs in times of transition. Though not many in number guaranteed you will feel comfortable because it has the flexibility to move financially, another possibility of being the husband of the calculations, caused by a lack of appreciation of the task wife. There's a popular notion: that domestic tasks trivial. This triggered the husband looked at one eye on the personal needs of his wife.


To fix this, sometimes not enough communication, you should make aware of the contribution of the husband you have done on the integrity of the household. One way is to occasionally ask your husband to replace the role, For example by asking her husband to stay home on weekends to accompany the child. In essence, you still try to maintain your independence outside the home, even the slightest form. That way, you do not need to feel lost identity, simply because it no longer went to the office every morning.


38. How to Handle The Hypersexual Husband

Husband's great play 'in the bed seemed to be every woman's dream. However, if the passion shown make love constant tireless, could be a punishment for his wife.

A. No Control
In this case must be distinguished between the terms hyper-sexual high libido, someone who has a high libido usually find satisfaction every intercourse, while men just want to hyper sexual constant intercourse, because it is difficult to reach orgasm in whatever form. Looking at hyper sexual disorders as one form of dependency, Intimate relationship is seen as being emotional or to attract the attention of others, so this activity is not aimed at achieving physical satisfaction let alone build intimacy.


Another difference, he could manage the high libido 'desire', while men hyper sexual justify any means to satisfy his desire. So, what causes a person has hyper sexual? Hyper sexual not genetically acquired, although environmental influences. Physical disorders, such as hormone imbalance, abnormal genital development, also have contributed. In addition, psychological factors can be a traumatic experience form hypersexual behavior.

B. SEX, SEX and SEX
Not infrequently, patients tend hypersexual withdraw from association. But, at last shame it removed with more and more sex. Result behavior like hypersexual endless cycle. But, though a man have the talent hypersexual, that trend might not develop. 'Disease' is a new will arise if there is a trigger factor, the stress of work pressure, anger at a particular problem, or try variations of sexual desire more challenging.

Problem hypersexual men become more severe when entering into marriage rope, Moreover if excessive sexual drive of the husband pushed her to find variation not only with one partner. As a result, her partner feels betrayed and threatened the marriage broke up. Alarming, due to an affair here and there, they risk contracting sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV-AIDS, which can infect his wife.

C. Be Normal again
When you are dating a lover, you may be unable to detect the sexual behavior of her. Well, if you're already married to a person with hypersexual, do not rush divorce. These sexual disorders can be cured or minimized. You try to open communication about these issues with her husband. But, if you feel inadequate, even feel like a victim, better advised to ask for help shrink or sexologists.

However, this healing therapy is not only applied to the husband, you also have to take part in it. Persuade him to undergo therapy. Explain the importance of this consultation for your relationship, but concentrate on the discussion from your perspective so that husbands do not feel cornered.

For a while avoiding all forms of behavior that can stimulate the desire for a husband. Generate a husband in joint activities, such as working out together or a particular hobby. Try to keep the two activities are carried out in a crowd. Thus, the husband will learn to control his desire.

You also can raise his spirits by praising her husband's ability in other areas. Burst of praise may seem trivial. But, slowly, this will raise his self-confidence, and create confidence in him-self that he could do other things well, including the control his making love passion.

39. Dessert after Sex


Like the dinner meal is complete, it is not perfect to enjoy sex without the 'dessert' or commonly called after play, Starting from touch, grope, hug and other activities after orgasm. After play believed to provide a double satisfaction, namely the physical and emotional satisfaction.

A. After play activities Often Missed
Which is referred to as after play partner activities conducted after each orgasm, So, if only one party that just had an orgasm, activity was not further be called after play. Naturally, both men and women are equally real need after play. Same with dessert that is useful to neutralize the taste of 'sharp' from the main menu, after play role in much the same, namely to neutralize the chemical changes that occur in the body after sex.

Many activities can be done in after play. Ranging from mild hugging, kissing a soft, groping, rubbing his forehead, massaging each other, until the bath together. Mutual praise and express love can also double the pleasure sex. For example, you are in a loving way to say, "I love you," or, "Honey, you did great," the couple's ear. Or, as she hugged and kissed, you can ask each other, how far you are satisfied with the 'game' that just finished.

After play should not pass up, Because of the intimacy that forms in the body of this comfortable can assure you and your partner will be strong emotional bond they own. In addition, satisfaction is also formed long-term, because it will be useful in developing further relationships in everyday life, while orgasm is tremendous satisfaction, but shorter age. Satisfaction is actually also can be obtained only with masturbation.

B. How other men conquer
Apart from being a moment to express love, after play also be useful to streamline communication and negotiation. Feeling satisfied and comfortable after orgasm usually will make each party wants to give pleasure to their partner. Because the aim to achieve physical pleasure and emotional together, after play activity should be enjoyed by both parties. Do not let just one party burdened or annoyed. When this happens, the activity will only make after play satisfaction of orgasm be reduced or even lost.


40. Husband Brunt must faced by Wife


Repeatedly failed to get a job would be a heavy blow for anyone. Especially for the husband, is unemployed they fear most in this life. They were silent, expecting the best solution for the husband and wife, so that the problem of income inequality in less than destroyed the marriage.

A. Weighing the Social Burden
Many things can block up a man's efforts to feed the family. One of the primary, because depletion of employment, the aftermath of the monetary crisis and has yet to recover fully. Husbands who fail to provide for the family, the social burden is huge, because in fact unemployed husband who would instantly become the public spotlight.

Income problem is one of the most sensitive things in marriage, Therefore, saying the accusations against her husband pitched could be a boomerang. "But, if the husband had gone too far: for example, be indifferent keep, let alone have done violence, both financially, verbally, or physically to his wife, the wife must be firm. If necessary, immediately ask for divorce only.

B. Keep Talking Wife
Dialogue is the key to resolve problems in the marriage. If a wife who worked was unable to run dual roles alone, there was no other way except talk frankly with their husbands. Say it clear to the husband, because you have to work, then somebody has to fill the position of housekeeping tasks. Directly to the husband's offer to fill that position. Describe with empathy, because the husband's heart is usually quite sensitive in this situation, especially not a man who enjoys being the father of the household.

In addition, real dialogue must begin long before marriage. Things to be discussed, especially the division of roles in the household, dare to say no to a man who refused dialogue. Because, basically, no love is not based on genuine willingness to understand the things you like or dislike of the people we love.


41. Fit and Proper Test for being Husband Candidate


Heart-shaped box of chocolates and a bouquet of roses that look inviting envy from friends, it can bounce your heart to the clouds. Unfortunately, all of the passionate expression of love can’t be used as a guarantee that the future he could become a credible husband. The following simple test will test whether he had the potential to become a partner enough to live in difficult and happy!

A. Men's Health How to find the right
1. Realistic: Not a creature was perfect! But you both can learn to complement each other through the potential and weaknesses of each partner.
2. Honesty. Without honesty, the relationship will lose its way. If you can’t trust him, to whom else can you depend?
3. Respect. Find the man you respect. Thus you are both more easily working together in resolving any problems that arise.

B. More Know Before Saying "Yes"
Start with the introduction stage itself. This phase will help you find exactly what you expect from a relationship, and what kind of man can achieve what you want it. Do not get stuck in moment romanticism. In an ideal nature, maybe you want a figure of a man who always lavishes you with a bunch of attention. However, occasionally it's good if you investigate the motivation behind the sweet treat it.

42. Happy Woman with The Spontaneity of Romance


Something that was not planned does contain risk. Can fail, but too often ends success. Life the hectic big cities often become obstacles for the couple to plan a date, especially when they both worked. The streets are jammed, crowded bustle of work, and children who can’t be left behind, often times making couples almost run out of energy to enjoy togetherness, In fact often stealing time to talk at night too, the difficulty for mercy. What are the tricks that do not lead to failure?

A. Like the Oasis gives coolness
Intimacy of husband and wife should continue to be maintained, so that marriage does not become Arid. If did not allow for planned, it could not hurt to make the dates spontaneous keep no time for romance together. As far as husband and wife relationship is not a problem and they have a strong emotional bond, the dates it can be spontaneous oases little soothing. The reason is the things that usually lead to unintended 'bang-bang' in the heart. This is very refreshing to have married life monotonous and routine.

No need to bother to plan a great second honeymoon, for example by going to places outside the city of romance or abroad. In addition to expensive, also needs a special time to be designed well in advance. Therefore, continued spontaneous dates aka impromptu date to be an effective solution and, of course, far more efficient. For example, go to a movie or trying new restaurants, when they're relaxed schedule.

In addition to causing surprise, things are usually spontaneous return would provoke the human adventurous spirit. Eric Berne quotes theory of Transactional Analysis, humans basically have the three elements of personality, namely the element of children (playing, adventure, experimentation, all considered cute), mature elements (realistic, thoughtful), and the parent element (protect advise). Three elements necessary for a balanced human being can be psychologically healthy.

B. There remain signs
His name was also not planned there is a risk of failure, even to total failure. For example, you suddenly appeared in front of the husband who was serving out of town. The point still, wanted to surprise my husband so happy, But what happened, my husband even interfere with your arrival because the work can’t be interrupted, or you're forced to stare alone in the hotel because the husband could not accompany the streets. Or, worst of all, you caught her husband was busy with ... Another woman! Such risks it is very possible. Therefore, even if done spontaneously, still have to have 'signs' that should be held.

The first, his intention must be to make you both are equally fun. Therefore, you must be familiar with the nature and habits of couples, including the things she liked and disliked. Health condition or partner's mood is also not neglected. Third, if in the end you both so dated, do not ruin the atmosphere that was absorbed by passing fishing sensitive topic, For instance, brought up her ex-lover or her mistakes in the past, If it happens until the husband so fed up getting a date with you.